Sorry to hear of your loss buddy.. I always had a hard time dealing with loss throughout my life.. I even went almost 20 years without attending a single funeral... This eventually changed as I got older and the thing that helped get through it is something that maybe can give you some sort of solace in these hard times.. Everything happens for a reason, no matter how hard it is to understand..Know that there has never been a life that was ever lived that did not leave some sort of good on this world.. Even the most vile people of the past who commited the most horrible deeds fell to the causality that their horrible actions were learned from and drew people closer and gave them a greater understanding of each other.. so if even these people and their tragic victims were able to leave something positive on this world than imagine what kind of good someone as sweet as I am sure your niece was left on this world.. and all that good will live on long past our own lives and affect people who will be around long reply
Past ourselves.. this is what makes each and every life unique and special.. and is why we should look back with happiness because we were there to know these people personally.. reply